Her chance for happiness hinges on a future that is highly uncertain, to say the least.1.
Even Katharine Hepburn knew, and accepted, this fact during her long affair with Spencer Tracy.
And don't ever kid yourself on this important point: He is still having sex with his wife, no matter what you may want to believe.5.
Describe a typical date in your country: Where to people meet? Use the Internet to find information on similarities and differences between cultures on these questions.
Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. As my friend Jenna* told me, "You can't help who you fall in love with.
The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.
Her close circle of friends might know about her affair, but she really cannot let anyone else, such as colleagues or her family, know.In fact there usually isn't after the affair is over. Even though he has a deep feeling of love for you, he is able to process it in an unemotional way.He's not a bad guy, he may be a wonderfully kind person, but he is also a practical one.He knows that holding on to emotions that can only cause problems for his family is something he cannot and will not do. To safeguard yourself from too much emotional pain, you need to understand that he can only be a small part of your life and will never be more than that no matter how many promises are made.You need to have a life that works and that is full enough to withstand the pain of the eventual breakup. A solid circle of friends and a social life separate from your hidden life with him is a necessity.You may not have set out to fall in love with a married man, but there are times in life when even the most intelligent women find their emotions getting the better of them.