You’re probably saying to yourself, I would never do such a thing, but I am willing to bet you’ve done it or you’re in the process of doing it right now.
Here are ten tips that will help you keep the hunt alive: One more attempt to drive this point home: Men are not content to acquire “the low-lying fruit.” A friend of mine once told me that “Men can have hundreds of suitable apples all around their feet, but they’re not happy unless they go for that big, shiny apple on the highest branch.” Always keep the hunter hunting.
What you’re ultimately trying to accomplish is to show him that you’re a very enterprising woman, which reveals to him that you’re more of a benefit to his life than a liability.
But if the brother is broke, you have to question his motivations (and his sanity). This brings me to my next point: Don’t ignore the red flags.
He must use whatever tactics are at his disposal to get the go-ahead for intimacy from a woman. Some women are notorious for turning a blind eye to the warning signs, even if they’re staring them right in the face.
I’ve seen women buying men everything from cars to jewelry to clothes.
I’ve seen some of the most successful, beautiful, and strong women be completely dumbfounded as to how they became so blinded by a man.
If your man is living in his mother’s house for more than a couple of months — I give a small grace period — RED FLAG. If he drives an expensive car, but rents an apartment — RED FLAG. Men are aggressive by nature, and once we devour our prey, we’re off on the next hunt.
This means that once a man feels he has you effectively under control, he will move on to the next prey that presents a greater challenge. Men look forward to sharing the excitement of your world, but that’s impossible if you’ve made the man you’re dating your world. ” I cringe every time I hear those types of questions.
Let him know, for instance, that you’ll only cook every day for your husband.
Show him you’re willing to stand by his side — to a point.
Understanding the Playa Some hunters hunt to survive; others hunt as a hobby. As the saying goes, “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.” Well, the same goes for men. Chances are, you won’t get much more than surface information out of him if he isn’t comfortable with you. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been friends forever or even if you’re married.