Granted, breaking up can be a messy and complicated state of affairs altogether, but when the grounds are still rocky, it’s not wise to drag someone else into that.
So, from experience, albeit a short amount, don’t do it.
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Until the ink drives on those divorce papers, save yourself the baggage, the drama, the hurt feelings and the time wasted.
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In the car on the way back I jokingly asked him if he was going to ask our mutual friends for the 411 scoop on me and he said no because everyone isn’t aware of He revealed to me that he was currently separated from his wife of almost 10 years. ” My mouth, on the other hand said, “I understand, that’s a tough situation to be in.” I’m not quite sure why I blurted that out, but afterward, the phone calls continued, the text messages kept coming in and so did the date suggestions.
Before I could do the calculations in my head, he explained that he had married too young, in his early twenties, and not only did he have a wife he was separated from, but two sons. He followed that bomb with “I hope you’re okay with all of this? I tried to be a team player, but then reality set in.
The purpose of a separation is to allow space for both parties to step back and evaluate the problems without the influence of one other.
I realized this guy hadn’t yet resolved his issues and had no business pursuing dating.
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Although I didn’t get dragged into the drama, I often had to hear about and see how all of it affected him.
His venting and rambling about something she did or said.
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